There’s a reason why it’s easier to say no than yes – universally easier.

It’s easier to change your mind from no to yes, than from yes to no. It’s a con move.

Reject then accept ends in happy.

Accept then reject ends in angry.

Acceptance (yes) is positive. Rejection (no) is negative.

Initially saying no leaves room for negotiation. Anything is better than no. Even if I get a little it’s better than getting nothing.

Initially saying yes leaves no room for positive movement. Any movement will be regarded as negative.

No, until I think about it, means somebody is going to gain something.

Yes, until I think about it, means somebody is going to lose something.

It’s a con reaction that universally is used and accepted as valuable.


By Sharon Lee Davies-Tight, artist, writer, chef

Chef Davies-Tight™. The Animal-Free Chef™. ANIMAL-FREE SOUS-CHEF™. FAT-FREE CHEF™. Word Warrior Davies-Tight™. HAPPY WHITE HORSE™. SHARON ON THE NEWS™. BIRTH OF A SEED™. Till now and forever © Sharon Lee Davies-Tight, Artist, Author, Animal-Free Chef, Activist. ARCHITECT of 5 PRINCIPLES TO A BETTER LIFE™ & MAINSTREAM ANIMAL-FREE CUISINE™.

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