ESTEEM, YOURS

Somebody can’t give you high self-esteem – nor low nor anywhere in between. That’s something you give yourself, something you create yourself out of your view of yourself and your view of your experiences. Africans are always expecting or wanting Europeans to treat them more special than anyone else, so they can feel better aboutContinue reading “ESTEEM, YOURS”

THE EYE OF THE STORM

The eye of the storm. The mind is most powerful when it’s stubborn. The resistance of the mind is like super glue–one drop holds a yacht, keeps a mountain from moving, stops the sea from separating, and creates a frustration so intense in a person witnessing it in another, that it can cause heart attacks,Continue reading “THE EYE OF THE STORM”

CHANGE

Change. In some way you must engage in the process of change if you want change to happen. It’s no longer enough to sit back hoping for change while others do all the work of it. At some point you must make whatever contribution you’re comfortable making, understanding that you may be discriminating against yourself byContinue reading “CHANGE”